Yesterday, in The Influence of Relationships, we shared Michael Dell’s wise reminder: growth doesn’t happen alone - it happens in connection. The rooms we choose, and the people we fill them with, shape who we become.

Today, let’s take that insight a step further with three small shifts that can unlock massive transformation in your life, your energy, and your future.

1. Do a Relationship Audit

Take 5 minutes to reflect: Who are the people you interact with most? Are they motivating you - or draining you? Uplifting you - or keeping you stuck?

Just noticing the impact of your closest relationships can spark a powerful shift in awareness. It’s not about cutting people off - it’s about consciously choosing who you invite into your energy and the influence that relationship has on you.

2. Make a Bold Ask

Is there someone you admire, respect, or want to learn from? Send the message. Make the call. Extend the invitation. Growth often begins when you dare to connect.

Don’t let fear or imposter syndrome rob you of the relationships you should be in. Think about what you have to offer and how you can give back to them as well. The boldest people aren’t always the best - they’re just the ones who go for it.

3. Be the Light for Someone Else

If you're reading this, chances are you have wisdom, energy, or kindness someone else needs. Reach out today with encouragement or support to someone who may not expect it.

Leadership isn't just about surrounding yourself with brilliance - it’s about being the reason someone else shines, too.